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New Year’s Resolutions
At
the beginning of a new year, we often hear people talking
about their new year’s “resolutions.” Resolution means “a
resolve or determination.” It
is also defined as “the act of resolving or determining
upon a course of action, method, procedure.” When
a person says that he is making his “new year’s resolutions,” we
understand that he is resolving to do something differently
in the coming year. It
may be that he wishes to cease certain faulty, wrong, negative,
or destructive habits; or it may mean that he wishes to
begin certain helpful, healthful, constructive, or positive
actions.
 We’ve all
heard about the resolutions that people make at the beginning
of a year. Probably
since a new year is beginning, provides the motivation and
opportunity to do something different. There
is also something exciting and adventuresome about embarking
on a new course of action. It
is a challenge that finds the opportunity. It
is the occasion to improve oneself. One
may determine to quit smoking, decide to lose weight, or
determine to continue his education. Another
may decide to eat more nutritiously, save money, begin exercising,
learn a language, or treat her spouse more kindly.
Sadly,
many—or even most—of these resolutions
seem to go down the drain. They
last for a week or two, but then they are forgotten. The
task seems too difficult, the temptation is too great, or
the effort is too hard. Distractions
enter life and the well-intentioned “resolution” is gone. Many
feel defeated. People
return to their previous patterns, their past habits, and
their comfortable lifestyle. As
a Mexican proverb has it, “A good resolution is like an old
horse, which is often saddled but rarely ridden.”
Is there a place for making new resolutions
as the new year commences? First,
it is good to know that we can resolve to do good at
any time of the year. We
don’t need to wait until the new year to make changes. In
fact, repentance means
a change of thinking that is expressed in a change of behavior. God
calls on the unbeliever to repent: “Repent and return, so
that your sins may be wiped away” (Acts 3:19). This
is the universal call and it is meant for anytime that
one hears the call. Wherever
we are and whatever time it may be, we need to repent of
our sins and turn to God through Jesus Christ for His forgiveness. We
must not wait another day, much less months, to get right
with God.
Further, the Christian who has failed
the Lord needs to repent. Jesus
tells the Christians in Ephesus, “Remember from where you
have fallen, and repent, and do the deeds you did at first” (Revelation 2:5). This
must be done immediately, without delay, for sin is not something
to be played with and the guilt of sin must not taint the
soul. Christian,
repent any time that you recognize you have failed the Lord! Don’t
find an excuse to wait another day!
Further yet, any time is the time to make
changes in our life. James
says, “To one who knows the right thing to do and does not
do it, to him it is sin” (4:17). This
means that if we know God’s will in March, or June, or September,
we shouldn’t wait until January 1 to implement those needed
changes. We are
responsible before God to do what we know to do at the present
moment of time. “I think in
terms of the day's resolutions,
not the year’s” (Henry
Moore). Don’t allow “new year’s resolutions” to bring delay
that is sinful. Notice
Paul’s pointed command, “Become sober-minded as you ought,
and stop sinning” (1 Corinthians 15:34).
Note
some examples of what we need to do immediately and not wait:
· If
a smoker wants to repent of his sin of using tobacco, he
shouldn’t wait until January to throw away the cigarettes;
he should do it immediately.
· If
an obese person wants to begin to lose weight and start a
healthy lifestyle, she should repent of any sinful indulgence immediately and
not wait until January.
· If
a person has been misusing his money through selfish gratification
for months or years, he needs to repent now and
begin to live frugally for the Lord—and not wait until January
to become financially responsible.
· If
a mother wants to begin reading morally-upbuilding and educational
books to her children, she should do that now and
not wait until January.
· If
a father wants to spend more time at home with his family,
he should do that now and
not delay this until January.
As the saying goes, don’t
put off until tomorrow what
you can do today!
Is there
a place for making new year’s
resolutions? Yes,
there probably is a needed place. If
a certain issue is not a moral or spiritual one and if sin
is not involved, January 1 may be a good time to make important
decisions and begin certain practices. The
year is before us and we can resolve to begin a project at
this time.
For example,
a person may resolve to read through the Bible in a given
year—and he begins his project
on January 1. Or
a person resolves to support a preacher or teacher or missionary
for a year, and this support may well begin in January of
a given year. Perhaps
we want to take a short college course in writing, air conditioning,
heating, or computer software; January may be the time to
plan on this venture and enroll in the course. A
couple may decide that a certain year is the year to purchase
a house; January 1 may be a good date to begin the quest. Many
good and worthy projects may begin on January 1 and this
would have profitable results.
As we consider these matters, let’s keep certain basic Scriptural facts in mind:
First, sinners have been able to accomplish
many things on their own, but if one has the Holy Spirit,
he is much better able to reject the bad and do the good. I’ve
known of smokers—ones who have smoked three packs of cigarettes
a day—but they were able to directly renounce the use of
tobacco. Alcoholic
drunkards have been able to do the same. But
the Holy Spirit does give us inner ability to do God’s will. Paul
says that we are “strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man” (Ephesians
4:16). He also
says, “If by the Spirit you are putting to death the deeds
of the body, you will live” (Romans 8:13). Depend
on the Spirit of God to help you in every worthy resolve
to do better.
Second, let the Bible be your guide. Many
resolutions are selfish in orientation, humanistic in motivation,
and worldly in content. Think
of the many women who resolve to lose 20 or 30 pounds so
that they will “look good” to the opposite sex and attract
a partner. Think
of the men who resolve to make a lot of money in a given
year so that they will be able to afford the luxury sports
car or take a Caribbean cruise. Think
of the young person who resolves to study harder and get
the best grades so that he will look good before others. All
of our resolutions must be exposed to the scrutiny of the
Word of God. That
Word is “profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction,
for training in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16). Measure
your intended resolution with God’s inspired Word to determine
whether it is worthy or not.
Third, determine to endure with your resolve. Commonly,
people break well-intentioned but superficial resolutions. How
many people determine to quit smoking but they fall back
into the addition a week or two later! How
many decide to lose weight, but after a week or a month of
success, they fall back into the same eating patterns. The
Christian is different than this. The
believer is to have the fruit of self-control (Galatians
5:22-23). Self-control
is from the Greek enkrateia,
from kratos, “strength” (W.E. Vine). The
Christian has the inner strength to do what he needs to do
and refrain from what he should not do. He
can resolve to do the good and refrain from the bad.
The follower
of Christ can discipline himself, with God’s help, to follow
through on previous choices. Paul
said, “I discipline my body and make it my slave, so that,
after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified” (1
Corinthians 9:27). If
we know that something should be done, with God’s help, we
can do it. Endure
in your resolve; persevere in your decisions.
Fourth,
don’t be afraid to admit that
you’ve made a mistake and don’t hesitate to change your mind,
in light of circumstances. If
you determine that you are going to take a college course
to enhance your life skills but if some other opportunity
arises, don’t feel obligated to endure in your early decision. If
you determine to go on an Atkins “low carb” diet and later
discover how harmful this is to the body, don’t hesitate
to forsake it and go to a more nutritious and healthy form
of eating. It
is permissible and even wise to correct a decision in light
of changing circumstances or according to further knowledge. In
fact, it may be very unwise to be unwilling to change your
plans if you have a better opportunity to do something different.
New year’s
resolutions. They
have a place in our life, but let’s not abuse this the way
many in the world do. Use
them for the glory of God, but temper them with the wisdom
that God gives.
Richard
Hollerman
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